I know I shouldn't give these fools the time of day, but they make me so tired.
Reverends bemoaning the homosexual agenda and the privileging of hot gay sheep herding sex over the holy institution of marriage. If that's how they read this movie, then it's no wonder their interpretation of the Bible is so straight and narrow--har har.
What is it with these Chinese American churches and their obsession with us queers anyway? Several years ago, the largest anti-marriage equality rally ever held in San Francisco was organized by Chinese American churches. You can't get 6 people to show up to save the In-Home Supportive Services for seniors. Notably, in San Francisco, the IHSS client base is over 80% elderly Chinese American. However, these churches will rally 6000 --that's right 6000 people to hate on queers. There's also a coalition of Slavic churches who have made preserving institutionalized homo-hate a top priority. They're organizing a super-fun event called Marriage Sunday whereby congregants devote an entire day not to feeding the hungry, loving their neighbors, nor chatting with their own families. Rather, they will spend the day gathering signatures to qualify a statewide ballot initative that would not only deny same-sex couples the right to marry, but also dismantle the current domestic partnership system. What is wrong with these people?
For those of you who actually know me, I am no fan of marriage. Even when I was a wee young straight identified woman (never was a womyn/wimmin), the idea of joining an institution that facilitated categorizing wives on par with furniture and farm animals was not very appealing. And as I came out and found my queer family and community, the idea that "real" and "devoted" families sprung from marriage was at best out of sync with my reality.
Of course, the marriage equality advocates will quickly point out the thousands of material property rights that flow from marriage. I'm not knocking that utlitarian and systemic discrimination argument. It's very real and in all seriousness, the studies (oh, those "studies")show that ending marriage discrimination will have the largest financial impact on low-wage queers of color who choose to get married. That said I cannot deny that marriage creeps me out.
So, I'm trying to conscientiously navigate my place in marriage equality debate. Not because I want to say "I do" and get lots of presents. Oh wait...maybe that is what I want, at least the present part.
I digress. I'm trying to figure out my place since this is how so many people--and especially faith based folk--are entering the debate over the broader homosexual agenda. (Which notably includes my right to pee without being harassed by the gender police.) And also because my job is increasingly positioning me as a professional homosexual.
Someday, I hope to articulate my own principled and nuanced position on marriage, family, state power, religion, and institutionalized discrimination. It will surely account for the all the pieces of my life and will include presents for everyone, a blog, photos, a large gray cat, and my iPod. However, given that it's the tail end of National Procrastination Week, all of that will have to wait...